Dissolving the Parental Bonds
By Ana-La-Rai
My Guides asked me to share some information about sovereignty that came forth in May 2021 as it continues to be relevant for many.
At the time, several clients expressed "issues & concerns" with either their parents or their children. Some blamed their parents for childhood patterns that still remained. Others were trying to save or rescue their adult children from decisions the children had made. What came through from the Guides was that the dissolving of the parental-responsibility bond has been purposely manipulated.
Previously, the energetics of full responsibility between parent and child would slowly begin to dissolve around the age of 14. This dissolving process allowed a young person to make their own decisions and choices, with guidance, to begin the transition into maturity and adulthood. On the flip side, this also released parents of their responsibilities allowing them more freedom.
In other cultures and past times, a "right of passage" or test assisted adolescents in becoming adults, such as surviving in the wild or a successful hunt. (https://www.globalcitizen.org/en/content/13-amazing-coming-of-age-traditions-from-around-th/)
In our time, these rites are not the same... From a bar mitzvah to a sweet 16 party or getting a drivers license, these do not represent sovereignty and maturity in the same way. Today, many children live at home for much longer and are far more dependent on their parents. Many parents try to control and manage their adult children, believing that parents know best. These patterns are even represented in social media, movies, books, and TV shows.
So, what is sovereignty and why is it important?
Sovereignty is an original Code of Origin for humanity. It is one of the qualities embodied by earth’s creator beings at the time of incarnation for this planetary cycle. Sovereignty is the third of the 33 Codes of Origin, following Love and Unlimited. It is self rule, the freedom and right to choose, standing in your own beliefs and power. It is a discovery of the Self.
The Guides shared that sovereignty is overridden when parents try to control, rescue, or save their children, especially adult children. At the same time, adult children who remain dependent on their parents, or blame parents for their woes, are not able to embrace their own sovereignty. The struggle happens on both sides. The child is not free to self rule, and the parent is not free because the energy of the child remains constant in their field and mind.
You are invited to look at your own family, your parental bonds, and those bonds with your children... What do you need to release to allow sovereignty to come forth?
Ana-La-Rai
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